Category Archives: Living Simply

The great move – the living room

Living Room

While I’ve gone on and on about my slow progress with my closet, I’ve slowly been going through my living room and family room. The last time I posted about this room it looked like this:

It’s looking a lot better. Most of the things got moved to my new sewing room to make a big mess there. But my first step was to go through things and try to get rid of stuff before putting it in the sewing room. Some days were easier than others but I had to get the stuff out of this room so my family could use it again.

I don’t have a picture of the front living room yet but there’s been a lot of progress there too. it’s more of a sorting area at this point where I’ve put bag making stuff, paper crafts like card making and stamping, bead making stuff, and patterns. It’s also been a place where I keep things I’ve posted in my local FB Buy Nothing group waiting for someone to express interest.

I don’t think I’ve mentioned this group here before but it’s been great. I post items that I no longer need or want but are still good and someone may have use for them. On an almost daily basis I post an item to be gifted. Not all things are claimed or wanted so those are either thrown or donated to a local thrift shop.

I always try to post things here first even if I don’t think anyone wants it. One never knows what other people may want or need and I’d rather something get used before thrown away. It’s a lovely concept where people try to avoid adding to the trash if they could avoid it.

You can put asks as well. Sometimes people have asked for things or gifts of service. So I’ve asked for a file cabinet and an ergonomic keyboard. It’s been great as you never know who is possibly getting rid of things and may have what you are looking for.

cheers!

melanie

The great move – the closet – it’s finished!

and the middle frame is done. I ended up shifting it over slightly to the right so that the drawers can be opened and closed without hitting the closet doors. I absolutely love it. It’s a bit odd to have those gaps. but the gap on the left exactly fits the boxes I got from the door banner of the month last year. It’s not shown in the picture now but the one empty box I have is there.

And to the right fits a shoebox. I hope it all works out but I currently love it.

I’ve also emptied all my suitcases of clothes (packed for the great move) into the drawers in the closet. It’s pretty packed. so my next goal is to go through and remove those things I no longer want, need, or wear. I’m slowly wearing them and making decisions. The plan is to get to the point where my clothes fit comfortably in this closet.

Don’t get me wrong, I also still have clothes in my closet in the sewing room. These clothes are those that are hung up and I’ll also need to go through those as well. But I have to start somewhere and my focus is the clothes in this closet.

cheers!

melanie

The great move – the closet – an update #5

The kiddo helped me with the top shelf from my last update so that frame is now complete. I’m slowly finishing up the middle frame. I am disappointed that I couldn’t get the third rail in and now I’m stuck with a middle frame that is a bit compromised with how I can use it.

Oh well I will live with it and try not to let it sour my feelings every time I have trouble putting things in and taking things out. I was internally debating on what to do here and decided to put the shelves up first. I only had three shelves left so put those up first. Next I have 2 mini drawers and then a lot of regular drawers. I have more than enough since I originally planned for 4 frames. Once the middle frame is done I have to sit and think on what to do with the empty spot between the middle and right frame.

I was playing with the idea of moving the middle frame slightly so I could fully use the drawers and I may still do that. The only thing is that I’ll have gaps to the left and right of the middle frame. On the left, I could fill it with shoe boxes and that’s where I put my shoes. But I had planned to put my filing box or a real filing cabinet on the right. If I make the gap on the left I won’t have room to put my filing box or cabinet there.

Well, I’ll finish the middle frame and live with it a month or so. I will decide on moving it or not after. I may be ok with how it is. Or I may not be and will try living with the middle frame shifted over.

I do have a whole living room to clean up while I figure that out.

cheers!

melanie

The great move – the closet – an update #4

Since my last update I got the frame put together on the right. The only thing left to do there is screw the top shelf in but since I’m short that will have to wait. I intended to ask the guys who installed my new closet mirrors (picture below) but forgot about it until they left. Now I’ll need to schedule time with my son.

New mirror closet doors.

I am thrilled with how this came out. The only issue is that I had wanted a third rail for the third door so I could get the middle frame filled with drawers. But because of the framing of the closet the third rail could not fit. Now I’m left with figuring out whether I still put drawers in the middle frame and be content with not being able to pull it out completely or just put shelves in.

cheers!

melanie

The great move – the closet – an update #3

I’m still working on my closet. I am dealing with a wrist/thumb issue and so I am taking things slowly one drawer at a time. I finished the first frame. the second frame is untouched because the closet gets in the way. I’ll need to tackle that when the closet doors come and my new handyman installs it. For now I’m working on the frame on the right.

On my last update I was thinking about returning the shoe drawers. Since then I’ve decided they are actually pretty cool and so I’m going to install them at the bottom of the frames. I have a lot more shoes than will fit here but It will handle the shoes I use most often while the least used shoes will either go on the top shelves or stay in the closet in the sewing room.

cheers!

melanie

Going off Social Media

Lately, I’ve been feeling down. I’m sad, frustrated, upset, and immobilized.  The pandemic, quarantine, loss of people, friends, and family and the social things that kept my small tiny little life happy has really gotten to me.  The politics and obvious blatant racism and pain in the world. Just pain everywhere.  It’s awful and horrible. 

I am on Instagram and Facebook. I have a Twitter account that I don’t really use but periodically get pulled to when I click on something that brings me to it.  I watch YouTube and I do not even know what qualifies as social media anymore because just being on my computer or phone brings up notifications that pull me away from what I want to do and draws me down into a rabbit hole.

I am reading a book called, “Digital Minimalism” by Cal Newport.  I loved his book, “Deep Work” and I’m enjoying this book.  It’s about our digital life and how we no longer have control over our actions, thoughts, uses.  He’s much more eloquent than I am and I’m probably saying it wrong.  But I realize that I’m letting social media control my moods – I get sad, upset, jealous/envious, and angry after I check Insta/FB to see what’s going on.  I know I should know better than to feel this way when I see friends post certain things.  I know I should be better at putting my phone down, shutting my computer off, and doing the things that really matter.  I’ve often thought of deactivating my accounts and I still haven’t done it.

But some things have got to change. I am tired of this unmotivated, sad, angry feeling that has consumed me recently.

I can’t go off completely. I run the Facebook group for my quilt guild. I am also technically in charge of the guild’s Instagram account and by technically, it’s because I created the account and I monitor it. But since Covid, I’ve not really posted anything on it. I also run our zoom weekly quilting bee on Sundays to help keep the guild connected to each other.  I moved the apps on my phone to another page further away from my home screen that is slightly more difficult for me to get to.  That way it’s more of a conscious choice to get to it.  I may apply more rules to myself but so far, I’ve decreased my contact on social media and taking back more of my time and becoming more positive.

As part of my evening ritual, I am not allowed to check Facebook or Instagram after 7pm. I just started doing this in the last couple of weeks and my sleep has improved dramatically.  My fit bit broke a recently so I can’t give you real numbers but in terms of feeling, I’m waking up much better each day more regularly than before. 

~always,

Melanie

Day 46, What I miss most …

#1 – hanging out with friends and our craft days. Generally we have knit nights on Thursday nights. And every few weeks we do a craft Saturday or a craft Friday. We are doing zoom to meet virtually but it is just not the same.

#2 – I miss my retreats. There is something about taking all my quilty stuff and working on just quilts for 3 or 5 days.  I get so much done.

#3 – Popping over to the store – my LQS for some fabric, my LYS for some yarn, and even my LNS to hang out and stitch with my stitchy ladies. And, even Joann’s or CVS or Petco for that one thing that I need.  The hubby is our point person when going out in public and those things I needed before – well, I don’t need them so much anymore.

#4 – Making plans. It’s hard to make plans for the future because we don’t know what it will bring. How life will be and how we will need to adjust when we are allowed to go out again. International travel is definitely not in the books this year but what about domestic? I’m itching to go camping which we haven’t done in YEARS but for some reason I am feeling the call to do.  Anyone else?

#5 – Food, eating out, going out to eat with friends and chatting about our lives

and I’m sure there are more… but these are just the top 5 that come to mind.

💕

Melanie

Saturday Musings and another bag class

This weekend is a chock full of classes.  This month is a chock full of classes.  First a few months ago I signed up for my quilt guild’s September workshop on embellishments.  I signed up soon after the quilt show and was highly motivated to take classes on any hand work I could get my hands on.  That class is tomorrow and I’m still very excited to take it, I just wish I didn’t have two classes this weekend.

The second class is the monthly bag class I’ve been taking.  When I took the August bag class the September class had not yet been scheduled but that soon changed.  My calendar on my bujo is Sunday through Saturday so when the class was scheduled for 9/9, I immediately signed up.  I didn’t realize that my other class was the following Sunday.  Oh well.  Even if I had known, I would have signed up for the bag class anyway.  I’m really enjoying the classes.  I just wish I had time to do more bags outside of the class to fully learn the techniques.

And I have a third class scheduled for next Saturday, the 16th.  I can’t remember exactly what I signed up for but I believe it’s on the same lines as hand work and embellishments.  These are the things that interest me lately and the techniques I want to learn, practice and develop.

On a side note, my secret project is bound and the next step is to label and wash it.  I’ll add that to my to do list for this coming week.  Since it’s a secret I can’t post pictures until some future date.  Sorry!

~Happy Saturday Stitching!

~Melanie

Getting my sewjo back… fixing the space where it all happens

Earlier this year, we got rid of our office space (outside of the home) and opted to save money and move everyone virtual.  For me, that meant my sewing room/office became my full-time office.  And part time sewing room.  While I love working from home, every time the weekend and evenings came, I would stay out of this space.  That meant that my happy place was no longer my happy place and I stayed away from that room whenever I was not working.  I decided things weren’t working.  I want to sew again but I was cramped and I had no room to pull things out and craft. I needed a change and I needed to revamp my space so it would once again be a place of joy.

Here’s what it looked like before:

 

It’s so cluttered and full of stuff.  A couple of weekends ago the hubby promised to help move out the big entertainment center and move another piece of heavy furniture in its place.  Since he agreed to do that I didn’t see any harm in just changing the whole room around.  To help with the change, I moved everything out.

And here’s my room rearranged:

 

It’s still a work in progress.  There is a bunch of stuff cluttered around that I need to organize better and I’ve still got a lot of stuff waiting to be put away in my living room.  But I also got rid of a lot of stuff (thrown away, to be sold, or to be donated).  But I’m much happier now with it the way it is.  And I hope as I continue to craft and work in here I will find other ways to make it better.

~happy crafting!

~Melanie

Value Driven Life

The vision of how I see my life in 10 years can change over time as I get older, gain experience, learn things about people and myself.  But my values generally stay the same.  Some years I focus on particular areas while other years I focus on different areas.  I used to have my values on an index card lying around somewhere for me to see every day.  At some point, I stopped that practice. When I started my first bullet journal last June, I revisited my values and dedicated a page to them.  And when I moved to my current bullet journal I continued this practice.  The words changed a little bit but the overarching themes remain the same. Here they are in no particular order:

Health

Family

Creativity

Experiences

Simple Living

As I translate my vision from a dream in my head onto paper (or computer screen), my values are central to this vision.

~Melanie